... then HAND wash the knifes one at a time, dry and put in the knife block. Your knifes will stay sharp longer if you take care of them.
^^^This! No dishwasher!, Use the knife, clean and wipe it, back in the block, good to go.
Everytime you sharpen (steeling is straightening the edge, not sharpening) you are grinding away your blade. If you keep your knives in a drawer, get used to dull. If you put them in the dishwasher, forget about the handles.