Well, I think I'm sold on the beef roast, for pulled sandwiches. as far as her being against my whole way of lilfe, not at all. everyone is entitled to eat what they want, and besides, bbq is a PART of whom I am, not who I am. as long as I can eat what I want I don't give a hoot what she WONT. It seems as though most people when they think of this bbq thing, think of pork, I was just hoping to get everyones thinking caps on and get some new ideas. The pizza thing sounds good too. I know there must be other members on this board who have significant others who won't eat at least some of what they cook, and to be honest mine would probably eat whatever I put in front of her,( except seafood) she is quite impressed that I can actually cook!!!! I think she would at least try it. so thanks again everyone.
Chris