I am not serving food to the orthodox jews, I am having them at the meal and therefore no pork or the like. Lot's of good ideas guys. I think the menu is a follows
Going to try a very high fat content beef fatty with cheese and veggies, chick wing lollies all as app's. The meal will be two spatchcocked birds on the grill, a 17 pound brisket, smoked, and 8 racks of beef ribs. Dessert is up to the mrs. Thanks for all your help. Scott