There are a bunch of good sauces out there. Sam's, costco and RD all carry something that should work well for you. If you find something you like but it is too thick add some apple juice, if it needs sweetening add some honey or sugar. Add hot sauce for heat. I have used head country and cattlemans and also made my own, definitely not worth making your own. Stick with one of the store bought gallon sized, they have spent a lot of money on market research, most are pretty good. If someone doesn't like it.... well you can't please all the folks all the time.