Guys...take your beef offline(no pun intended). No one here wants to see your dirty laundry. Drop it or get on the phone. But no public pissing contests here. Thread will be scrubbed.
I just realised you have the shiny on one side, and the black on the other.
Perfect solution! You just turn it around for weekdays, or turn it shiney side up for Sunday Finest.
Problem solved.