Smoker said:I'm not a parent, I don't play one on TV, nor did I stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. That being said, kids need to experience the real world. Sometimes life won't be fair and they might as well learn it. I'm not sure what the rule states but if they consider that marking, then they get DQed.
It's like disciplining a child. My sister does not believe in discipline so her kid keeps doing the same things wrong. He goes into someones house and will pick up anything he wants. He will usually break it. He's not allowed back in many houses. He is 8 years old and is in for a big surprise when the real world hits him in the face. My other sisters kids have been disciplined from day one. They know the difference between right and wrong. They know that making a mistake has consequences. They will have an easier time hitting adulthood. If the kid was DQed, explain why and make a lesson of it. Let them know the rules were accidentally broken and ask them what they learned.
Jeff_in_KC said:In the 11 to 15 year old age group, I'd agree with you. In the 5 to 10 year old group, I strongly disagree. It's like the youth leagues where the younger ones don't have score kept. they're just learning WHAT a contest is all about. By the time they reach age eleven, let them learn how to COMPETE.
Smoker said:"It's like the youth leagues where the younger ones don't have score kept". Are those the same kids doing the new math where it doesn't matter that they don't get the right answers? Well I hope those kids are not designing the planes I fly in.
I remember being in Little League and we always kept score. I learned you win some, you lose some. One of the first things I learned when becoming a flight instructor was something called "The law of Primacy".
http://www.laubach-on.ca/Trainingpost/talphand2.htm
"First impressions are the most lasting. This means that those first lessons are all-important."
Thats why the lessons learned in a child's first few years are extremely important. I don't believe in any of this new fangled pc cr@p the school systems are forcing down our throats. It's creating nothing but a new generation of cry babies.
Keeping this on topic, I'm sure the kid that was DQed knows that his cooking was not for nought as he honed his skills, maybe made some new friends and hopefully learned one of lifes lessons.
P.S. I think all this has made me realize I want children. I'm gonna go tell my wife the good news!!!!
Yeah, they messed up but you know what? In MOST cases, it's actually the PARENT who caused the DQ in the first place. Why punish a kid for that?
BrooklynQ said:Jeff - you just rasied one of my largest peeves about parents and kids in contests. It doesn't matter what the contest is. I'd say about 70 - 80 precent of the time the parent does the work.
I don't help my kids in contests. If it's supposed to be a fourth grade science project - let the fourth graders do it. Same with the Kid's Q. With the exception of any dangerous activities, it should be the kid all the way.
If the parent is involved at ALL, the kid should be disqualified.
Why not DQ the adult's KCBS team for breaking contest rules? They can DQ you for failing to obey the contest specified quiet hours. Why not this?
I think 9 time out of 10 - if the parent is helping the kid, the kid is begging them to back off anyway. I know my daughter would sear my hand if I got close to her food, and she's only 5. My job is to open and shut the grill lid that she can't lift safely. :-D Once she is big enough to do that, I doubt she'll let me in the ring at all. We make a big deal out of the "do it yourself" thing though. She makes her own rub - gets to choose stuff from the cabinet, mix and taste,.... makes her own spray/baste. At Platte - she chose cherry coke and apple juice. Not my first choice, but it worked for her. I offered up my "cider squirt" and she punted it.BrooklynQ said:That's a great solution. Smack the parents.
OUCH LMAO!!!!!Smoker said:Off to the hospital to get stiched up. Damn curling irons hurt!!!!!!