A lot of Jews of a certain age grew up in Conservative homes that were not kosher but who shunned pork out of habit (except for the occasional rasher of bacon.) I think it wouldn't hurt to chat them up and see what they're comfortable with. I don't think there's anything mysterious or exotic here.
Photography is my passion, truth my obsession. No wait, Stieglitz said that.
Cheap Shots is my tumblr photoblog
22.5 OTS Weber kettle
Smokey Joe (RIP)
a dorky little headlamp