Sorry about your Moms husband, he sounds like a real fighter, probably because he loves your Mom so much.
On to the bbq. Please do not share your info, it's not fair to the others that have paid money to learn the “secrets" of those pros. I'd love to know the info but I'd prefer to attend the class as I'm sure most others would as well.
I believe it's not your techniques to share. You did however pay to get this info, and I believe in the First Amendment so do as you choose. Whether I agree or not.
Lang 84 Deluxe Longneck w/Chargrill,Custom Pig Rotisserie,UDS, KCBS CBJ, Ace Of Spades BBQ Team