Originally Posted by 3 Rivers BBQ
Ribs at the rehearsal dinner...must not be black tie.
It's a rehearsal...not the actual wedding.
So...to the OP and his question:
Poster from Maryland would charge $xx per person.
Poster from Illinois would charge $xxx per person.
Poster from Wisconsin would charge $Xxy per person.
Poster from Georgia would charge $z per person.
A question like this asked to people who live all across the country will not garner you much in the way of a useful answer. Pork butts may cost one person $1.10 per pound an another person $2.50 per pound. Briskets may cost $1.85 per pound or $3.25 per pound. Your food cost will determine what your price is...not considering the hour drive.
Instead of asking "what would you charge for a meal like this" you should focus on learning the basics of food costing/pricing. After that, you'll never have to ask anyone ever again what "they" would charge.
Good luck out there.