Please keep us informed on who responded to you and who didn't.
It seems that Candy thought that your email was a bit on the harsh side and maybe a little venomous. It didn't read that way to me.
I don't feel strongly about this one way or the other, so I can't answer as to whether you are right or wrong.
As long as the rules are clear and made available and are implemented after that happens; I really don't care.
I applaud you on writing to the board though. Silence helps no one.
2 Thessalonians 2:15